tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128981159160729349.post8676352051113737976..comments2023-10-05T21:51:56.714+05:30Comments on Seema Goswami: Seema Goswamihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07256344300404114085noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128981159160729349.post-37062246589841312302010-08-15T19:00:09.785+05:302010-08-15T19:00:09.785+05:30(CONTINUED)
Well, if the truth be told, As Karl M...(CONTINUED)<br /><br />Well, if the truth be told, As Karl Marx rightfully said, religious and cultural beliefs are the opium of the masses and the propoganda that having sexual needs and desires and expressing them is wrong is not only unnatural but according to Hindu Mythology blasphemy as well. After all the Yogic Literature is all about the divine unification of Shiva and Shakti, Yin and Yang, the integration of the Masculine and Feminine Energy as one.<br /><br />So, women its time you look beyond the hypocritical cultural and social smokescreen and acknowledge your only human. Having needs and desires is not inhuman or immoral, its just how God made you as these desires are exhibited by all living things. There is nothing slutty about wanting to explore unchatered territories or forbidden activities like Reading Erotic literature, Watching Romantic movies, or even indulging in hedonistic acts. Moreover, be confident and true to the fact that your human.<br /><br />Last Week, a friend of mine was asked by a cheeky friend that she and her boyfriend had sexual relations. Instead, of feeling embarassed or uncomfortable, my friend replied with great poise and confidence while looking that friend straight in the eye and said yes she did! And whats more she enjoyed! I was completely awestruck and the questioner too looked as though he had been slapped hard across the face.<br /><br />But, retrospecting on the incident, I am extremely proud of my friend not because of what she said but rather than she was unafraid supremely confident and never looked more dignified inspite of giving a reply which most people would think as being vulgar and loose charactered. <br /><br />The bottomline if you ask a guy is this, yes we don't like women competing with us when it comes to sexual and physical dominance but ask any guy and he would admire a girl who is unafraid to dare and speak her mind when it comes to taboo topics whether most women even fear to thread.<br /><br />- V.J.V.J.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128981159160729349.post-68977756184314546562010-08-15T18:59:14.270+05:302010-08-15T18:59:14.270+05:30Hi Seema,
I am ardent fan of your column in the S...Hi Seema,<br /><br />I am ardent fan of your column in the Sunday Brunch and regularly read your blog.I love this blog post..its hilarious and in many ways quite true!<br /><br />However, Seema, I has hoping you would express your views on a certain tendency I have noticed in most Indian Conserative Woman.<br /><br />The Indian Woman of Today is liberated and modern but only just. While her dressing sense and her demeanour are certain modern and fashionable. She is assertive and unafraid and acknowledges her crosses from her noughts. She can party all night long and can give most men a run for their money at the workplace.<br /><br />However, one area where women continue to hide behind the veil of conservatism is in expressing their intimate needs and desires. The Indian woman is still very socially conscious and scared of being label a 'slut' or 'loose-charactered' and this prevents her from expressing even her innermost needs and desires.<br /><br />Lets face, human beings are sexual beings. Even in Spirituality, the second energy center of our body (Called the Sacral Chakra) governs our inner most desires and sexual liberation is one of them. <br /><br />While, the darker sex is vocal about his sexual prowlness with endless talks about porn, hot babes and sex; The fairer sex is still closeted about her own sexual and physical needs because in our culture its a social taboo and any woman who is expressive about her desires is a slut!<br /><br />Its a small wonder that most Indian women have issues with intimacy and physically being expressive even behind closed doors. For since childhood, women are repetitively scolded into being covered from head to toe and told not to let any one raise fingers on their character and question them. So not only is the girl averse to exploring her needs but starts condemning them and thinking of herself to be immoral if such thoughts which are but natural pop up in her head.<br />What people don't realise that, that feeling of immorality at actions which can only be termed as natural coupled with a new found guilt, makes women physically inexpressive and sex-averse. Even married women are hesistant to explore their sexual desires with their husbands because of this taboo which is by now ingrained in their minds. No wonder that India has the highest population of asexual and sex-averse people in the world. <br /><br />What's ironic is that most women are even scared to admit that they enjoy reading romantic and racy literature or watching romantic movies and some even go to the extent of claiming its disgusting (well to each one their own) but one really wonders whether that is a cosequence of social taboo or an individual choice. <br /><br /><br />- V.J.V.J.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128981159160729349.post-49630298140815425382010-08-15T14:09:10.153+05:302010-08-15T14:09:10.153+05:30So true. . . Ur research methods may have been uns...So true. . . Ur research methods may have been unscientific but the results are quite accurate though a thing or two might be missing. ;-) its sad to think bout what we guys have to live with. .SavvYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10194541796254823060noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128981159160729349.post-74648805462963360292010-08-12T07:14:47.495+05:302010-08-12T07:14:47.495+05:30hilarious and awesomehilarious and awesomeJankinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128981159160729349.post-23739926234613096092010-08-11T16:01:09.063+05:302010-08-11T16:01:09.063+05:30First of all I wonder, if all that are labeled as ...First of all I wonder, if all that are labeled as irritants are absent in someone, will they be treated as 'non-man'?<br /><br />Secondly I must commend you greatly about all that you have researched about females! Most accurate account from men's perspective, albeit with a lot of generalization!Indrajit / Horushttp://abode-of-horus.spaces.live.comnoreply@blogger.com